HOW TO STOP BEING A WALL FLOWER

HOW TO STOP BEING A WALL FLOWER

Are you tired of being shy? Always being the one to hold up the walls at parties, as if they are going to fall? Keeping your mouth shut, like you have locked it  and cant find the key?well ,its pretty easy to solve. This problem, maybe not at first, but soon enough you will  be the first of the party if you follow  these easy tips.

This may be the hardest thing to do but  why not try  to start the conversation. Believe it or not , but other  people also came  to the party  and to socialize. You may find  that you both like the football club , Manchester united or rap music. You never know till you try.

Dress up , people! No one  likes to see the  tuktuk in a room full Mercedes. Nothing too fancyncy (unless required) but just enough to show you made an effort. It will make you seem more inviting  and easy (unless required) but just enough to show you made an effort. It will make you seem more inviting  and easy to relate to .

Once you have a  company, don’t talk  and talk and talk about yourself! Listen to the person , without interruption , and maybe  you can become an expert extrovert.

This is kind of indirect but still helps – do stuff. If you wake  up, watch tv , eat , sleep and repeat, what are  you going to talk about! Do some interesting things, like learn how to do a split or try out for a play . remember  interesting people have interesting conversation.

Lastly  and most importantly, enjoy yourself  and smile! A smile is the  easiest way to let people know you are  a positive and fun person. If people see you enjoying yourself, then they will not be around you so they can enjoy themselves too.

I hope this helped you all and that it will make you a walking fun magnet.

Done by Kendra mathaya-