HOW TO STOP BEING A
WALL FLOWER
Are
you tired of being shy? Always being the one to hold up the walls at parties,
as if they are going to fall? Keeping your mouth shut, like you have locked
it and cant find the key?well ,its
pretty easy to solve. This problem, maybe not at first, but soon enough you
will be the first of the party if you
follow these easy tips.
This
may be the hardest thing to do but why
not try to start the conversation.
Believe it or not , but other people
also came to the party and to socialize. You may find that you both like the football club ,
Manchester united or rap music. You never know till you try.
Dress
up , people! No one likes to see
the tuktuk in a room full Mercedes.
Nothing too fancyncy (unless required) but just enough to show you made an
effort. It will make you seem more inviting
and easy (unless required) but just enough to show you made an effort.
It will make you seem more inviting and
easy to relate to .
Once
you have a company, don’t talk and talk and talk about yourself! Listen to
the person , without interruption , and maybe
you can become an expert extrovert.
This
is kind of indirect but still helps – do stuff. If you wake up, watch tv , eat , sleep and repeat, what
are you going to talk about! Do some
interesting things, like learn how to do a split or try out for a play .
remember interesting people have interesting
conversation.
Lastly and most importantly, enjoy yourself and smile! A smile is the easiest way to let people know you are a positive and fun person. If people see you
enjoying yourself, then they will not be around you so they can enjoy themselves
too.
I
hope this helped you all and that it will make you a walking fun magnet.
Done
by Kendra mathaya-
